10 Signs she’s waiting for you to escape the friendzone (And how to do it) Most men think escaping the friendzone means convincing her you’re worth it. That’s backwards. You don’t convince — you reveal. The truth? If you’re in the friendzone, she’s already attracted in ways she doesn’t admit — even to herself. And if you know what to look for, you’ll see the signs. They’re subtle. Psychological. And most men are blind to them. See, women don’t friendzone you because they don’t feel something. Th